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Online Sex Crimes Defense | Collin County and Dallas-Fort Worth

Police Want to Interview You About Online Messages? Talk to a Lawyer First.

Barbieri Law Firm helps Texas professionals and students plan their next step before they say a word to investigators. Free initial consultation, confidential and with no obligation.

By Heather Barbieri · Published October 18, 2026

What a Pre-Charge Police Interview About Online Messages Means

A police request to talk about online messages, before any charge, means investigators are gathering information. It does not mean you have been charged. If police want to interview me about online messages, a Texas lawyer can help you plan your next step before you say a word.

Investigators may contact anyone whose messages are part of a case. You might be a witness, someone they want to understand better, or a person whose messages they are reviewing. Being contacted is not the same as being arrested or charged.

The request can come in several forms. It may be a phone call, a text, a note left at your door, or a visit at home or work. Don’t assume the request is casual. A friendly tone does not change where the conversation can lead.

That difference matters, so raise it with a lawyer early.

This page is for two readers. One is the person contacted. The other is a parent, partner or family member trying to understand the next steps.

If police have asked to talk about your messages before any charge, you do not have to decide alone. Call Barbieri Law Firm or send your case details for a free, confidential consultation. Talk it through with our team — the first consultation is free, confidential, and carries no obligation.

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Can Police See Your Text Messages?

Messages often exist on more than one device, so the same conversation may turn up in several places.

  • A lawyer can review how access was obtained.
  • The other person’s phone. A message you sent may still sit on the other person’s device, even if you deleted your copy.
  • Provider records. Phone and internet companies hold records that can be requested through legal process. The tools used depend on the investigation.
  • Deleted messages. Deleting messages after you learn of an investigation can create separate problems. Talk with a lawyer before you change, delete or reset any device or account.

Online messages can also carry serious legal weight when a minor is involved. Texas Penal Code § 33.021 covers certain electronic communications with a minor. It also says it is not a defense to a meeting-solicitation offense that the meeting did not occur.

Don’t assume a message is out of view because it seems harmless or because you deleted it.

Can Police Lie to You During an Interview?

An officer’s statement about the evidence is not proof that the evidence exists. Officers may say another person has talked, or that they already have your messages. Those statements may or may not be accurate, so check them with a lawyer before you react.

Unplanned conversations carry risk. You may want to explain, fix a misunderstanding or prove you did nothing wrong. That urge can lead to statements that are later used as evidence.

Texas law recognizes one defense tied to police conduct. Under Texas Penal Code § 8.06, it is a defense that a law enforcement agent induced you to commit the charged conduct through persuasion or other means likely to cause persons to commit the offense. Merely giving someone an opportunity to commit an offense is not entrapment.

The line between inducement and opportunity matters in online cases. A lawyer can review how the contact started and how it developed.

How and when you do that is part of planning. It is not a moment to improvise.

Can Police Keep Talking After You Ask for a Lawyer?

Clear words matter.

  • Use plain words, such as “I want a lawyer before I answer questions.”
  • Don’t drop the request in the middle of a conversation without a plan for what comes next.
  • Keep a lawyer’s contact information ready, and tell that lawyer what happened as soon as you can.

Asking for a lawyer before any interview gives you and your counsel time to review what is known. The choice of whether to speak should be made with a lawyer once you understand the facts. Speaking in the moment, without that review, is where most people get into trouble.

Can Police Tell You to Stop Filming or Search Your Phone?

Officers can ask to search your phone. You should not assume a search is lawful just because an officer says it is.

  • Consent requests. A request to search is still a request. You can ask to speak with a lawyer before you answer.
  • Passcodes. A demand for a passcode is a serious step. Discuss it with counsel first. Don’t hide, change or wipe a device to avoid review.
  • Recordings. If you recorded the encounter, keep the original file and give it to your lawyer. Don’t edit it or post it online before you talk with counsel.
  • Officers’ statements. An officer’s claim that a search is allowed is not the same as a court’s ruling.

Questions about filming an officer are fact-specific. Ask a lawyer before you act on an assumption.

How Defense Works Before Any Charge Is Filed

Pre-charge defense means a lawyer reviews what is known, speaks with investigators when that makes sense, and helps you decide about any interview. It all happens before a charge is filed. Here is how the work usually moves.

  1. First contact. You call or send case details. The first conversation covers your situation and what you already know.
  2. Review. The lawyer reviews the messages, the reported contact, the investigator’s request, and any warrant or subpoena that has been served. Your account stays confidential.
  3. Contact with investigators. The lawyer can speak with the investigating agency for you. The lawyer can ask whether you will be interviewed and on what terms.
  4. Decision on any interview. The lawyer explains your options. These may include declining an interview, speaking with counsel present, or providing a written statement. The lawyer also explains the risks of each.
  5. Preparation and follow-up. If you do speak, the lawyer prepares you. The lawyer also tracks new evidence and any charge or grand jury process that follows.

Timing varies. Some investigations move quickly and others take much longer. These steps describe the work, not how long your matter will take.

Texas also sets time limits for presenting some charges. Texas classifies offenses as felonies or misdemeanors under Penal Code § 12.02. Some misdemeanor assault cases involving certain family or household relationships have a three-year limit.

If the messages involve a child, investigators may use a child forensic interview. The OJJDP child forensic interview guidance describes professional standards, including open-ended questions and avoiding repeated questioning.

No lawyer can ensure a particular outcome. What the firm does is review the evidence and explain your options.

Not sure what your next step is?

Talk it through with our team — the first consultation is free, confidential, and carries no obligation.

Why Barbieri Law Firm for Defense at This Stage

Barbieri Law Firm is an all-women criminal defense firm based in Frisco, Texas. It defends people accused of sex crimes and assaultive offenses in Collin County, Dallas-Fort Worth and across Texas.

Heather Jean Barbieri, Board Certified, Criminal Law — Texas Board of Legal Specialization.

Heather Barbieri is the founding attorney and the lawyer responsible for the firm’s work. Our team, made up of support staff and office staff, assists with scheduling, documents and the case file.

The firm handles sex crimes defense, aggravated sexual assault defense, child sex crimes defense and online sex crimes defense. It also handles aggravated assault and family violence defense matters.

Messages are often central in these cases. The firm’s work covers the offenses those messages can involve, so the review starts with the charges that could follow.

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Questions People Ask Before Any Charge, and Your Next Step

Do I have to answer police questions? You can decline to answer and ask for a lawyer. Plan that choice with counsel before you act on it.

Can I be charged after I speak with police? Statements can be used as evidence. Any charge depends on the investigation and on prosecutors’ decisions.

What if I already talked to officers? Tell your lawyer exactly what was said, when it was said, and whether you signed anything.

Does a free consultation commit me? The free initial consultation is confidential, with no obligation to continue.

Does Texas law cover online messages to a minor? Texas law can make certain online communications with a minor a crime when the person acts with the required intent, such as sexually explicit communication with a minor or soliciting a minor to meet for sexual contact. Penal Code § 33.021 also provides defenses that depend on the facts of the case. Penalties depend on the specific offense.

If police have asked to talk about your messages before any charge is filed, you are facing a decision you did not choose. You don’t have to work through it alone. Call (972) 424-1902 or send your case details through the contact form.

Attorney responsible for this site: Heather Barbieri, Barbieri Law Firm, Frisco, Texas.

Barbieri Law Firm, 17 Cowboys Way, Suite 175, Frisco, TX 75034. The information you obtain at this site is not, nor is it intended to be, legal advice. You should consult an attorney for advice regarding your individual situation. Contacting us does not create an attorney-client relationship. Results listed are not a guarantee or indication of future case results.

How We Help Before the Interview

Review the messages

We will review the messages police are asking about, along with the surrounding context, and explain what they may mean.

Plan your next step

We will talk through whether to speak with investigators and on what terms, so you decide with the facts in front of you.

Prepare for the questions

We will help you understand the questions police may ask about your phone, your accounts and your messages.

Handle communication

Once you retain us, our team can handle communication with investigators so you are not making every decision alone.

Before you respond

Speaking with police or deleting messages can affect your case in ways that are hard to undo. Call a lawyer before you answer questions or change anything on your devices.

Common Questions About Police Interviews Over Online Messages

Am I being charged?

Not necessarily. A request to interview you before any charge means investigators are gathering information.

Should I go to the interview?

That decision depends on your facts. We will review the messages and explain your options before you decide.

What if I already spoke with police?

Call us as soon as you can. We will review what was said and explain what may come next.

Can you contact investigators for me?

Once you retain Barbieri Law Firm, we can communicate with investigators on your behalf.

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